Can there be PRIVACY in a digital age?

There is no simple yes and no answer to this question. The simple fact is, yes, privacy is possible. However, you would need to define what privacy means. Privacy today and privacy a decade ago had very different constitutions. Today, sharing your waking moments with only those you wish to share it with would be…

5 Tips For Having Pain Free Anal Sex

1) The Diet  The things you eat ultimately affect your sex life and how enjoyable anal sex will be. Here are a few standouts: Fiber Intake: You should be receiving up to 40 grams of fiber a day, with lots of water. Some bottoms take supplements like Konsyl or Fibercon. Not only does fiber allow you to…

Condoms Unwrapped

The messages are everywhere, chances are you have probably heard at least one time in your life an ad campaign aimed at promoting condom use to prevent the spread of HIV and other STIs. Usually in hook-ups, condoms are expected – but, what about in a relationship? There exists a taboo among gay men surrounding condom usage…

5 Common Gay Relationship Killers

Relationships are not easy, and gay relationships are not exempt from those difficulties faced by everyone who tries to open up their life to someone else. Like anything else in life, a relationship takes a lot of effort and work from both sides, and if one party is not pulling their weight, there’s bound to…

How to convert your internship into a Job

In todays’ economy, it seems like finding a job is a full-time job in itself. In high school and even college there is a high focus on resume writing and even interview skills, but what good are these things if youngsters can’t even get their foot through the door? Imagine being a customer of a…

The Mini Guide to Virgin Sex; and those who have sex with them

The stigma that surrounds having sex with virgins or being a virgin is timeless. As far back as history records, virgins have been used for sacrificing, insuring a valid marriage, make for better sex…or can cure HIV. But this blog is not about these ridiculous values or myths, it’s about having sex with virgins: a…

10 Ways To Love Yourself More This Year

1. Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself: It’s really easy to focus on your flaws, imperfections, pimples, and other things you hate about yourself. But harping so much on negative traits never got anybody anywhere. This year, try not to be so hard on yourself. Accept yourself the way you are. 2. But If You…

Gay Sex Positions Guide

There are four main ways to make love: standing, kneeling, sitting or lying. According to the Gay Kama Sutra the most comfortable sex position depends mostly on the height and weight of both partners. If one of the lovers is a well-grown, but the other’s stature is short, then some sex positions may be rather…

6 Reasons to Rethink HIV Prevention

1. 60 percent of young people living with HIV are unaware of the fact. According to the national Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 60 percent of young people who are HIV-positive are unaware that they are living with the virus. Some HIV-negative men and women believe that a person who discloses their HIV-positive status pose…

“No Fats, No Fems”

As someone who’s once tried to venture into the tyranny of online dating, two things usually strike me as most apparent, the user agreement for most of these sites that moderates the content shared on profiles, usually the policing of images shared on site or to a lesser extent, the profile descriptions. A quick read…