5 Common Gay Relationship Killers

Relationships are not easy, and gay relationships are not exempt from those difficulties faced by everyone who tries to open up their life to someone else. Like anything else in life, a relationship takes a lot of effort and work from both sides, and if one party is not pulling their weight, there’s bound to…

5 Tips For the Single Gay Guy

Being a single gay man is not the worst thing in the world. You have the time to do the activities you enjoy without compromise; you have the freedom to go on as many dates/hook-ups as possible; you don’t have to worry about someone else’s social media activity. But regardless of all the reasons you…

An Ode To Boring Love

I often feel inundated with so much art, discussion, and philosophy on all the myriad ways we fall in and out of love. I am the first to admit that I have gotten swept up in it, that I have dwelled on these subjects — we all have — but it can sometimes feel exhausting.…

In Defense of Open Relationships

A common belief perpetuated widely in gay men is an insatiable sexual appetite fueled by lust, depravity and a general lack of morals which ultimately makes all gay men – sluts. This stigma has been used to fuel hate messages, anti-gay marriage campaigns and hurtful stereotypes that still linger in the community, being perpetuated not…

5 Unofficial Relationships You Have in Your Twenties

Generation Y, the last hope for Mother Earth before the baby boomers take over are an interesting set, in the age of social media and unhealthy self obsession our interactions become muddled and ambiguous. Some of us decide to use these years by the ‘single and free’ aphorism, on the verge of quarter life crisis, we…

Is He Scared of Condoms?

If you are ever lucky to be in a relationship where protection is mutually demanded, then you are one of the lucky ones. If not (and I am sure many others can relate), there is always that one partner who loves to share intimacy raw, bareback and unprotected. Just last month, I was proposed with…