Gay For Pay – Or Just Bisexual?

To start things off, a gay man is a man who is sexually attracted to other men, with a heterosexual or straight man being exclusively attracted to women. The term bisexual is used to describe attraction both sexes. Gay-for-pay describes male or female actors, pornographic stars, or sex workers who self-identify as heterosexual but who are…

An Ode To Boring Love

I often feel inundated with so much art, discussion, and philosophy on all the myriad ways we fall in and out of love. I am the first to admit that I have gotten swept up in it, that I have dwelled on these subjects — we all have — but it can sometimes feel exhausting.…

2014 in Review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2014 annual report for this blog. Here’s an excerpt: The Louvre Museum has 8.5 million visitors per year. This blog was viewed about 520,000 times in 2014. If it were an exhibit at the Louvre Museum, it would take about 22 days for that many people to see…

The Singles Guide To Christmas

The Holidays can be a fulfilling and rewarding time for couples, Couples plan for weeks in advance, how to surprise each other for the holidays while single folks everywhere might choose to become resentful over the season. They become a sort of reminder of just how lonely we have been feeling or how long we…

In Defense of Open Relationships

A common belief perpetuated widely in gay men is an insatiable sexual appetite fueled by lust, depravity and a general lack of morals which ultimately makes all gay men – sluts. This stigma has been used to fuel hate messages, anti-gay marriage campaigns and hurtful stereotypes that still linger in the community, being perpetuated not…

NEWS FLASH – DECEMBER

NEWS FLASH These Ancient Condoms Will Make You Realize How Far Safe Sex has Come Date:  November 26, 2014 Source: Buzz Feed Summary: Next time he or she complains that condoms kill the vibes or are uncomfortable remind him/her of what condoms and safe sex used to be like by checking out this article which…

5 Stereotypes Gay Men Are Tired Of

Gay men are a dynamic group of men but there are certain types of gay men who are idealized by media and portrayed in popular culture that lead to stereotypes and generalizations being made about all gay men. Here are five stereotypes gay men who break the mold are tired of. 1. We don’t all…